Thursday, January 29, 2015


Cara Bristol's book,  REASONABLE DOUBTS, is the lastest in her Rod & Cane Society series. It is a story about a widow getting back into the dating scene after twenty-two years of marriage. It's not easy at any age, but it's especially not easy when you want a relationship to include spanking. How and when do you introduce your prospective partner to this kink?

I love this series and the characters in them. I've been waiting for this latest for what seems like forever.  I'm sure you will enjoy the read.

Reasonable Doubts and dating spanko style
By Cara Bristol

Dating doesn’t get easier the older you get. The available pool of available partners shrinks, people get more set in their ways and become more specific about what they want. After people have lived for a while, they may carry “baggage,” emotional wounds or scars from past relationships.

If you find yourself suddenly single after a long marriage, the prospect of dating can be terrifying. Dating isn’t like riding a bicycle: you do forget how.

You have new responsibilities, new requirements, new needs.

For the first time in years, maybe decades, you might find yourself faced with the possibilities of having sex with someone new. Bodies have changed, shifted. Libido may be more or less than it was when you were younger. You’ve learned more about yourself—but that makes you more specific in your expectations of others.

Liz Davenport, the heroine of Reasonable Doubt, was widowed after 22 years of marriage, 27 years with the same man. Her heart has begun to heal and she meets a man she’s thinks she could be interested in. But Liz’s needs are a little more complicated. In addition to facing all the usual issues of that arise when one begins to date again, she has a little secret that complicates things. Liz wants to be spanked. Her marriage was a domestic discipline one. She doesn’t just want her man to be a partner and lover, she wants an HOH. So how does she tell her new man that?

What do you think? Do you think dating is more of a challenge if one is a spanko? Why or why not?


Widow Liz Davenport assumes when she begins to date, her new man will be like her late husband--a member of the Rod and Cane Society and an experienced disciplinarian who can provide her with loving guidance she requires to feel grounded and secure. So why is she attracted to Grant Davis, an ex-Naval  JAG officer who works for her nemesis and has never spanked a woman in his life?

Events in his recent past have forced Grant to take stock of his life and try some new things. But spank a woman? He’s never considered that before, but with Liz’s coaching he’s willing to try.

But when the past collides with the present, will he be able to step up and become the disciplinarian Liz needs?


An excerpt from Reasonable Doubts

“Let’s go.” Grant swatted her ass. A wave of longing rolled through her like thunder traveling across an open plain. She squeezed her eyes shut for a moment and swayed. 

More. Please more.

But there wouldn’t be more, because Grant wasn’t that way.

Why couldn’t he be a gentleman and a spanker? Was she foolish to start a relationship with a man who could give only half of what she needed? She’d never settled before. But at the idea of walking away from Grant, a little pang shot through her.

But maybe that ache afforded reason enough to call it quits—get out now before she became more attracted, more attached. She needed a man with the confidence to take her in hand and provide what she needed without her having to ask. A head of household who provided stability, structure, and discipline. A mother-may-I guy would not fit the bill.

Grant was a nice man. A good man. They had no commitments, but eventually she would meet someone who could provide everything she needed, and she would move on. It wasn’t right to use him to stave off the loneliness or to scratch an itch. He deserved better.

“Hey…are you okay?” Grant settled a gentle hand on her shoulder, and she realized a long moment had passed since she’d agreed to leave.

Dating did not get easier when you got older. If anything, it got more complicated. She took a deep breath and turned. She didn’t want to disappoint him, to hurt him. She liked him. Enjoyed his company, his conversation, his laugh.

“I’m sorry,” she said. “I can’t do this.”

“If you’re not ready, we don’t have to. I understand,” he said.

He didn’t understand. She would not be ready, ever. Not with him. But the words to mark paid to their fledgling relationship refused to leave her lips. Why did he have to be so nice? Attractive. Sexy. Damn him!

“Why don’t we go have some tea and dessert?” he suggested.

“All right,” she agreed, because she couldn’t bring herself to ask him to take her home.
She slipped out of his sports coat and felt an instant loss of warmth. “Thank you.” She returned it, giving back more than his jacket.

“Are you sure? It’s still chilly in here.”

The only thing she was sure about was how confused she was. “I’m good. Thank you.”

Grant shrugged into his jacket, and they exited the gallery. Misery thickened Liz’s throat, but she held her head high as they strolled down the corridor. They avoided the crowded elevator for the empty stairwell. Liz started to descend the steps, but Grant stopped her on the landing. He lightly gripped her upper arms.

“Listen,” he said. “I’m attracted to you, and I want to sleep with you. But it has to be right. You were married a long time, and this is a big step. We’ll take it at your pace. I’m sorry if I came on too strong.”

He brushed his thumb over her face, and Liz realized she was crying. Her face heated with mortification.

“Hey….” He wrapped his arms around her in a hug, and she hid her face against his neck. He chuckled, a sound of such tenderness, Liz cried harder. “Sweetheart?” Grant rocked her. “Tell me why you’re so upset.”

Because she wanted to sleep with him, but she needed him to spank her. Because her emotions were stronger than she’d thought. She craved discipline, but she desired it from him. Grant had wrapped himself around her heart the way his arms fit so snuggly around her shoulders. “B-because…I don’t know. Because I’m crazy.”

“I like crazy women.”

“Nobody likes crazy women.”'

“I like you.”

“Then you’re crazy.”

“See? We’re perfect for each other.”

She smiled through her tears. A measure of heartache receded, but confusion still reigned. “I’m a basket case.”

“I like baskets.”

Laughter snorted out her nose. She thumped his chest with her fist. “You’re too nice to me.” You don’t make it easy.

Or maybe she complicated the situation. She and Grant had connected. Perhaps she should get out of her own way and let nature run its course. Stop analyzing and go with the flow. Counselor, counsel thyself. Many friends had sought her advice, used her as a sounding board to work through relationship woes. She could read people and had an instinct for who would be good together. How many couples had she matched up over the years? Dozens, probably. But her life was a mess. A turmoil of conflicted emotion.

Fix me a spanking, won’t you, darling?

Some people drank to calm their nerves. Others exercised or meditated. She’d been spanked. So many times, after a grueling day at work, Otis had taken one glance at her and taken her in hand.

Spank me, Grant.

“Can I reconsider?” she asked.

“Reconsider?” he raised his eyebrows.

“I’d like to sleep with you. Tonight,” she said.

“You don’t have to do that. I can wait,” he said, but a lopsided, hopeful smile slid across his face.

She shook her head. “I don’t want to wait.”

As if he feared she might change her mind again, he hustled her down the stairs.

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  1. Congratulations Cara! I love the sound of this and enjoyed every snippet you have shared. Dating after a long marriage has to be hard enough, but add the kink factor!

    This is a great excerpt. Poor Liz, such inner turmoil.

    Thank you both for sharing :)


    1. Thanks, Roz! You've visited quite a few of my guest posts now.

  2. I know Cara it a wonderful writer and I'm looking forward to jumping into this book. It's high on my TBR list.

  3. Hi Sunny and Cara, what a lovely snippet. Poor Liz, I don't know if she is complicated, maybe she should just talk more openly to Grant. I enjoyed this snippet and have just put another title on my TBR list too. Thank you. :)



    1. At this point in the story, Liz is pretty sure Grant is not a spanko. She feels the best thing to do would be walk away and find someone she would be more compatible with long-term. The problem is she LIKES him, and she's very attracted to him. Thanks for stopping my Ni Na.

  4. Sunny and Cara, thanks for the lovely snippet. I'm going to have to add this to my TBR list.


  5. Thanks so much for hosting, me today, Leigh! One thing I'd like to add is that a couple of days ago, I put Reasonable Doubts in the Kindle Unlimited program. It's now available free to KU subscribers.

  6. I've read a couple of these books and enjoyed them. Looking forward to reading this one. Thanks for the snippet.

  7. Hi Sunny, I have read all this series now, great books,nice author
    love Jan,xx


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